How to Clean and Care for Your Sex Toys (So They Last & Stay Safe)

Let’s be real—buying a sex toy is an investment in your pleasure. And like any good investment, it deserves a little TLC. Keeping your toys clean isn’t just about hygiene (though that’s super important)—it also helps them last longer and perform better.

So whether you're new to the toy world or just need a refresher, here’s everything you need to know about how to clean and care for your sexy little sidekicks.


Why Cleaning Matters

First off, why is cleaning your toys such a big deal?

Because:

  • Bacteria, yeast, and viruses can hang around if toys aren't properly cleaned.

  • Leftover lube or body fluids can degrade materials over time.

  • Proper care means your toy stays safe, soft, and in tip-top shape.

Bottom line: if it touches your body, it needs regular washing. Period.


Step-by-Step: How to Clean Your Sex Toys

🧼 1. Check the material

The type of toy you have will guide how you clean it. The most common materials include:

  • Silicone (yay! non-porous and body-safe)

  • ABS plastic

  • Glass

  • Stainless steel

  • TPE, jelly rubber, or cyberskin (more porous—needs extra care)

📌 Pro tip: If your toy is porous, it’s harder to fully sanitize. Consider using a condom over it or upgrading to a non-porous option if you're sharing or using it internally.


🚿 2. Basic cleaning for most toys

Here’s your go-to routine:

  1. Immediately after use, rinse your toy with warm water.

  2. Use mild, unscented soap or a designated toy cleaner.

  3. Gently scrub (avoid harsh brushes or sponges).

  4. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a lint-free towel.

  5. Let air-dry fully before storing.


🔌 3. What if it's a vibrator or has batteries?

Great question. If it’s not waterproof, avoid submerging it. Instead:

  • Dampen a cloth with warm soapy water.

  • Gently wipe the surface.

  • Use a second cloth to rinse/wipe off soap.

  • Be extra careful around the charging port or battery compartment.

If it is waterproof, clean it like you would a regular toy—just don’t go throwing it in the dishwasher unless the packaging specifically says you can!


✨ Bonus Tips for Keeping Toys in Great Shape

🧴 Use the right lube

  • Water-based lube = safe with all toys.

  • Silicone lube = not recommended with silicone toys (can degrade the surface).

  • Oil-based lube = can stain or break down certain materials—do a spot test first.

📦 Store them smart

  • Keep toys in a clean, dry place.

  • Use storage bags or boxes to prevent lint, dust, or cross-contamination.

  • Don’t let toys touch each other—especially silicone ones.

🧽 Deep clean occasionally

  • For non-electric silicone, glass, or stainless steel toys: you can boil them for 3–5 minutes or run them through the top rack of your dishwasher (no soap) for a deeper clean.


🚫 What NOT to Do

  • Don’t use bleach or harsh cleaners unless the brand specifically recommends it.

  • Don’t store damp toys—they can grow mold or mildew (ew).

  • Don’t ignore the manufacturer’s instructions—they’re there for a reason!


Final Thoughts

Taking care of your toys = taking care of you. A clean toy is a safe toy, and the better you treat them, the better they’ll treat you. 💕

Looking for toy-safe cleaners or cute storage pouches? Check out our shop for all the essentials to keep your collection fresh and fabulous.

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